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While exploring that question, I came across Seeking Arrangement.com, a website designed to pair sugar babies with sugar daddies or mommas.Now here was something different; something I never, ever thought I would discover. But a part of me was very curious — too curious to ignore.At the time, I had joint custody and only saw them two weeks out of the month.I knew they weren't ever going to meet him, so I didn't feel the need to tell him right off the bat.He'd laid all his cards on the table, and I was either in or out.Oddly enough, he never asked if I had children and I don't remember ever bringing mine up.But one thing was for sure: With his dark hair, piercing blue eyes and 6'5" frame, I was definitely attracted to him.
A few weeks after signing the divorce papers, I jumped right back into the dating game with a 29-year-old I had met at a work function. By then, I was 50 with three kids and unwavering aspirations of getting my MBA. I went on a few dates here and there, but mostly they were just … It wasn't just because the men didn't look like their profile pictures.
But over time, I felt myself becoming more like a nanny and less like his wife.
Foreplay felt like a chore, and eventually we weren't having sex at all.
It was pretty uncomfortable at first, since he showed up wearing a suit and asked very non-personal questions about my life.
"Tell me a little bit more about yourself," and, "What have you learned from your past relationships? It felt more like a job interview than a date, and there were no fireworks exploding like I had hoped.
I learned that he had two children and was separated, largely because he and his wife weren't intimate enough. He was looking for someone who was sexy, confident and stable, which he wasn't finding by dating younger women. After my past experience with the 29-year-old, I was worried that he might not be on my maturity level.